- for you and me
by Melinda Urban RIHR, Energy Psychotherapist &
ThetaHealing Facilitator
Perspective is everything in my work! Over the years people have asked me if I feel drained after a healing session, or suggest it must be difficult as an energy psychotherapist to always hear about people’s struggles and woes. I suppose those are fair questions if your reference point is pain. However, the answers become rather obvious with a slight shift in viewpoint; healing isn’t focused on the difficulties we live, rather its heart is in the letting go of them.
There is Joy and Ease in Letting Go.There’s no question that some of our human patterns can be stubborn. Life lessons keep coming back to us through layers of subtlety. Vows and commitments we’ve made at other times can drive unhealthy themes in our lives. But it is possible to change these illusions in our perceived realities and awaken joy. I’ve observed many liberations of the soul from ego’s grip, and in my experience, ThetaHealing* moves out distortions and limitations quickly and easily.
There is Power in Pulling Up the Root.If you haven’t had the opportunity to read my previous articles explaining all about the power of ThetaHealing* you can find them on my website. This point, however, is worth repeating; ThetaHealing* gets to the root of your ego’s patterns so you can release unsupportive beliefs in a profound manner. In some way, shape or form the ego is only too willing to create life dramas that center around core beliefs like “I’m not enough”, “I’m bad”, “I’m wrong”, “I’m ashamed”, “I’m defective”, “I’m lost” and “I don’t exist”. The release of root beliefs like these will cause an old paradigm to tumble in 15 seconds. Think about that - a restrictive construct that you’ve spent a good part of your life affirming through one painful experience after another just disappears in a moment of grace. This isn’t because of some convoluted ritual, a plea for mercy from God, or a barter for reprieve, but through a simple command.
You Are Your Own Healer.This decree can be considered the alignment of clarity, certainty and honouring Self. You declare to the Intelligent Field of Creation, of which you are a part, “I’m done with this limiting saga”. I serve as the conduit for healing but you are the one who chooses to allow it.
Sometimes the explicit command isn’t even necessary. As the facilitator, my value is in helping you unravel the belief structure being held in place by the root. I listen for the ego’s story and bring light to what was invisible, intangible, mysterious and therefore frustrating to you. Often in the course of presenting the connections to you, you will see the obvious falsehoods. When you do, the shift simply happens. Just like that! Beliefs dissolve. The veil of separation from Spirit that you so steadfastly hung onto falls with ease, and the healing occurs. On some occasions, you only need to hear yourself speak supportive truths and the limiting beliefs release. You are that powerful!
All You Need is Awareness of Choice to Choose Love.Put differently, ThetaHealing*, energy psychotherapy and any transformational work is about choosing love over fear. When I help you understand the source of your pain I am facilitating an uncluttering of confusion and a glimpse into choice. The ability to see another possibility is often all you need to choose better for yourself. We bring you back from your wounding and a perception of separation from All That Is to remembering your wholeness as Spirit.
Love Expands Love.So imagine being me. I meet many beautiful souls. I have the honour of listening to many fascinating journeys of courage. I marvel at the adeptness with which egos spin webs of illusions, but celebrate how quickly they can be transformed. I watch pain and suffering disappear, sometimes in seconds. I have the privilege of holding space with compassion for our willingness to learn through the human experience. I witness blessings again and again in the numerous, individual, miraculous unfoldings in our collective evolution. Simply, when you choose love I experience the precise moments love expands on Earth.
Choose love. ThetaHealing* can help you remember that this is who you truly are. I’ll be here waiting to help – with ease.
Watch for next month’s article describing the most powerful shifts my clients have experienced with just one ThetaHealing* session.
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For more information on ThetaHealing* and the numerous, tremendous healing possibilities visit www.MelindaUrban.com or call 613-326-0428. Melinda Urban RIHR, is an experienced, intuitive spiritual psychotherapist working with individuals who are committed to their conscious soul evolution, and especially with healers who desire support for their ascension process. She is a master at unraveling the confusion in your concerns to heal the root cause. Cases studies, testimonials, and the many services she offers for your human self, spirit and soul can also be found on her website. Appointments in person or by phone.* ThetaHealing is trademarked.