by Amâeil (Melinda Urban RIHR)
Energy Psychotherapist, ThetaHealing Facilitator, Sacred Sound Channel
ThetaHealing* quickly, gently and easily gets to the root cause of your concerns and simultaneously releases energy from current life experiences, past generations, past lives and soul, to create deep and lasting change in your DNA! For previous articles explaining Theta/DNA Healing, and an overview of all my other services, visit www.MelindaUrban.com We are all our own healers. When we accept our emotions we accept ourselves. When we allow ourselves to rest in one another’s hearts, we are healing. Yet, the majority of people on Earth are blocked from their own emotions, and this is a vital time to change that. ThetaHealing can help tremendously.
There are many unhealthy ways that people deal with their emotions. I often see people who deny their emotions, and sometimes don’t know how to access their emotions. For example, when asked how they feel about something, rather than say “I was feeling hurt” they tell me what they think: “I thought that it wasn’t fair.” Alternatively, I see people who are emotional but never actually resolve their emotional pain; they keep crying the same tears or raging the same anger. You can be very expressive of your emotions but still not truly feel them and give them the space to inform you or transform. When you resist true emotional connection you are in fear of your emotions, and then this fear runs your life.
Lack of an emotional connection with yourself makes it difficult to have an emotional connection with others. For example, for healing practitioners, your own reluctance makes you less available and willing to witness and hold space for another’s pain. In turn, the client feels less than wholly supported. For partners, if you cannot be comfortable with your own emotions, it makes vulnerability and intimacy with another frightening. Empathy for another comes from your experiences, but the ability to be fully compassionate comes not from unaddressed wounds but from your healed heart.
If you see yourself in these scenarios know that you are not alone. Years of cultural and suppressed consciousness have contributed to the misunderstanding and devaluing of emotions. Fear of them arises from limiting programs such as, “if I allow my feelings I will get out of control”, or “emotions are messy”. Thankfully, there are numerous healing techniques that can release you from these beliefs, and ThetaHealing is one method that can address many of them at once, swiftly and completely, at the root level. It is important to know, however, that this is addressing the mental body so I also work with clients to facilitate the emotional release. You have to feel if you want to heal.
Now is the time to anchor your emotional connection with yourself. Practiced individuals who have healed many of their wounds and become adept at managing their emotions know how to witness them. This is not the same as putting them away or ignoring them. If it’s not already the case for you, you will begin to notice that your unfinished business is being amplified and you are having to clear it. This is not a demand or judgment from God but actually a benevolent act by the Divine: the physics of the planetary energies are changing, and in order to live in alignment with the Divine plan and your true nature you will be changing with it. So, accepting your emotions and actively participating in the release of your wounds now will be far less taxing than in the future.
We are all healers when we connect with another heart to heart, in unity. You are courageous for having chosen to be here. Have the courage to also embrace your emotions and heal yourself. Mother Earth will bow in gratitude.
Copyright 2011 Melinda Urban, All Rights Reserved
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For more information, case studies and testimonials visit www.MelindaUrban.com or call 613-253-2888. Amâeil is an experienced, intuitive, energy psychotherapist working with committed individuals consciously participating in their ascension. She is a master at unraveling the confusion in your concerns to heal the root cause, and teaches self-empowerment through your own inner wisdom. Appointments in person or by phone.